It would include

-A Library
-A Greenhouse
-A laboratory
-Secret stairways
-Tons of Paintings
-A large estate for the horses
-A secret grove in which to escape to and lay in the grass/underneath the canopy
-A river that could run either along the castle grounds, or an underground one.
-A Spire in which to view the countryside and see far along the horizon
-Obviously, an absolutely bitchin’ kitchen. Wood oven and all.

And much more. A man can daydream. What would you want in your castle?

Your lips so I can remember your kiss

Your eyes so I can remember their colour

Your cheek so I can remember your softness

Your collarbones so I can remember the warmth of your breath

Your spine so I can remember where to hold you

Your hips so I can remember where to pull you in

I trace your outline, so on these lonely nights, I can remember your touch. 

So my milkshake brought all the boys to the yard. That was fun to record haha. And I’m glad so many of you enjoyed it. 

I’ll do it again someday. Because why not, life is too short to be embarrassed and I’m a free spirit.

ALSO: This is my fitness/health blog. It has just started, and there are no posts on it as of yet. I have written a few articles and provided links, it will be updated as much as I can to keep adding content, and begin following other fitness blogs so I can reblog useful and fitspo things, Meow <3

http://body-mind-and-spirit.tumblr.com

Also, feel free to leave questions there!

PS: OFF TO WATCH GAME OF THRONES. Y’ALL BEST BE WATCHING IT RIGHT MEOW.

Sleep tight everyone. I’m hitting the sack early tonight after the show.

We move without thinking

Instincts take over

Then the rational mind ceases

And we begin dancing.

Dancing, to avoid the sounds of every day life

Dancing, to make the sounds to fill the silence

We dance in many ways

With our eyes to find or avoid people

With our thoughts while we self analyze

To attempt to think our way out of it

To somehow checkmate a situation

Or to simply ponder.

And we dance.

For we have been dancing since before music

To hide from the thunder, or revel in it.

Around the fire, or if you’re unlucky, inside it.

For the universe has its own dance.

And it does not care for music, nor us.

It does what it likes, and we must keep in tune.

And when we decide to stop, we can finally rest our tired bodies. 

I work at a yacht club, and around this time of year it’s Prom season. 

It’s been a long time since my prom, and some thoughts ran through my mind as I saw young men in their suits meeting up with young women in all sorts of dresses.

From flashy, to plain, to duct tape, everyone there has either picked or has had something picked for them to wear on this celebration of high school. Thinking back, I have kept only a few friends from high school, and the list of people who matter to me has mostly kept the same. I didn’t make a lot of friends in highschool, as I tend to make friends that stick around. I very rarely keep in touch with aquaintances and those whom I’ve met briefly. 

Back to Prom though.

I went alone to prom. Although I had asked someone, she had chosen someone else and that was ok. I didn’t have the heart to ask someone else because no one likes being “the second choice”. I enjoyed it for the most part. There were those who came drunk, those who came high, and those who did not want to be there at all. It was a mix of all sorts of personalities, but I made an effort to act like I didnt have a care in the world. I participated in all the games I could, and danced my heart out to the music that was playing. I was there for me. And no one could have stopped my groove.

Thinking back, the way I acted and felt in grade 12 was completely different than the way I was previously. My journey of self help and confidence started in the middle of grade 11 and by prom I was well on my way to being a happier and more fulfilled person. I remember thinking about how important high school would be, how much these people would matter. And when the final grade came around, all of that disappeared. I started seeing people change into adults, going up in success or spiraling down into bad habits and wrong crowds.  

I sometimes wonder what happened to everyone. Almost as if one could write a book with each chapter devoted to one student. Detailing their passions, goals, ambitions, or lack thereof. Although once in a while I’ll meet someone from high school, and we might talk about what’s going on, and I’ll have answered the question above one person at a time, but for the most part, I’ll never find out. 

I suppose I felt some nostalgia today, about growing up, about leaving high school, and finding out that the majority of the things I cared about didn’t matter, and that the majority of the fears I had were of things that never existed or came to fruition. 

So to all you followers who are going to prom soon. Have fun, relax, enjoy yourself. The majority of people you know in high school will disappear from your life once you leave. So be your crazy selves. Live as you want and do whatever pleases you.

To those of you who are well past prom such as I, what do you look back and see? I’m here to listen if you want to talk :)

-Adrian 

When you see me,

When you kiss me,

When I grab hold of your hand,

When you relax in my arms,

When you trace small circles into my forearms,

Your smile joins them. And I find myself thinking about how wonderful your smile truly is. And how much it makes me smile in response.  

You mean the world to me. I want nothing more than to see you smile, everyday. Because that’s what you already do to me.  

They say men are easy to turn on. Flash some breasts at them, or show them some sexy muscle and they are ready to go. Many would agree, but as a sexual relationship continues, in some people the novelty can fade (this can go for both guys and girls). Here are some tips for turning your man on.

If he is used to being the dominant one, shut him down. Show him who’s boss. If he wants to do you missionary or doggy style, resist and put him on the bottom. 

When you kiss him, don’t kiss his lips. This will drive him crazy. Kiss his neck, his cheek, his ear, his collarbones. But don’t kiss his lips. He’ll try to, but it’ll mess with him for a little bit why you wont. Step one complete.

Men like many things stroked. One of them is their ego. Now, every guys is different in terms of what their preferences are and what they like about themselves, but many like to be the protector and feed needed. Saying you like his manly chest or his strong sexy arms while giving the appropriate squeeze to them is as satisfying as hearing that you’re the most beautiful girl in the room. A man can be told he’s handsome by others, but the words mean something completely different in the bedroom. 

Kissing his nipples may be novel to him. A bite on the chest or his side might spark something ferocious in him. Don’t be afraid to play a little rough. If he says “ouch” or makes a gasp, offer to kiss it better with a smirk on your face.  

Similar rules apply for women as do men. Whatever you do, don’t touch his dick just yet. Doesn’t matter how hard he is or says he is. He’ll need to earn it first. 

Kiss a trail down his abdomen, and massage his pelvis. If he has underwear or pants on at this point, you can push into his dick teasingly. If he’s naked, just blow hot air onto it or let some saliva drip onto it.

Kiss along his thighs and massage his testicles at this point. Be gentle, as they can be sensitive. But no stroking yet. Continue this until he is begging for it (it won’t be long) and then you can start on the oral sex. 

Optional: While you’re teasing him, if he’s into it or gives you permission you, you can put a finger into his butt. Not every guys likes this or is okay with it. Make sure you introduce it either beforehand, or ask just before you plan on doing it. Some may like it, others might not.  Depends on the guy.

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These will be copy and pasted/modified from the women post

Handcuffs- Can be used to free up your hands, and assert a more dominant role than simply holding them back temporarily.

Blindfolds - This is great because you can take out one of the most important senses, but replace it with something just as amazing: Imagination. When she is blinded, you can play with hot and cold, anticipation, breaths, bites, nibbles, and soft and sensual words. This is great for switching roles or seeing how he reacts to different sensations. 

Feather- Tickling can be fun, and painful if taken to the extreme. Often used with restraints like ropes, scarves, and handcuffs to make the man beg to stop or as a reward for “punishment”

Riding crop- This is a little more intense and for those who like to push the lines between pleasure and pain. A simple snap on the thigh, butt cheek, and back can assert dominance. A tap or a strike on the chest would be taking more control. The handle can also be used to tease and inserted into him (make sure you wash your sex toys!). 

Vibrators and Dildos: There are cock rings and vibrators for men as well. You can place a vibrating bead into your mouth or around his penis, play with the tip and alternate with oral sex and vibrations. If he is into anal play, you can also insert a vibrator or a dildo into him to stimulate his prostate. 

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Final note: Just like every woman, every guy is different as well. Communication is key in the bedroom, and talking about fantasies, preferences, and new things is essential to maintaining a healthy sexual relationship. 

Hope it helped <3 Love you all. I’m always here to give advice
 

The first tool you have in your repertoire of foreplay is anticipation: This can start moments, minutes, even hours before you do anything sexual. 

A squeeze on her thigh,  an intriguing look, a quick nibble on her ear as you swear you need to tell her a secret. Even a text saying “I’ve got a surprise for you ;)”.  

When you two finally have some alone time, start off slow. All those nooks and soft spots on her neck need to be explored.  Take your time with this. Build her up. Kiss trails along the muscles of her neck. If she tries to pull her neck away because it tickles, pull her head back by her hair (roughly, or gently, depending on her taste) and show her who’s boss. 

The temptation is to go straight for her breasts and inside her panties, but don’t. You’ll get there, but you have a few things you need to do first.  

 When you’re about to kiss her, lean in close so she moves in too. As she tries to kiss you, pull away teasingly. This is where you take her hands and put them behind her head. Hold tight because she might try and resist for fun. Your other hand goes to her hip, pushing it into the bed, she’s the focus of tonight, not you.

 From here you can continue to kiss her, explore her neck, her collarbones, leave a nibble, and kiss trails along her shoulders. As you begin to kiss lower, skip the breasts. And move down her abdomen. She may try and move your hands, but resist the temptation. Let go of her hands and start massaging her thighs. Getting a mere two inches or so from her vagina and then moving all the way back. Every time your hands move closer to her center, inch a little further, but never quite reaching her. This is where, if she is wearing panties, you can kiss her on the clit through the panties, or if she’s already naked, slowly leave a hot breath just on top of her clit. Now you can start touching her breasts.

They are not radios, and they are not stress balls. Be firm, but gentle. A tip you can do is either use warming lube or your own saliva, lick her nipples until they are wet and firm, and alternate with hot slow breaths on top of them, licks, quick cold breaths over them, and licking again. Changing the sensation when you feel you need to.  

Even if she’s begging you to eat her out. Not yet. You can move down at this point and give her a squeeze on her inner thigh. As you get settled, a simple smirk or a smile can make her feel so much more comfortable. Lick right where her inner thigh ends and before her labias begin. Leave hickeys there if you wish, and as you kiss around, be sure to tease her with licks that barely graze her outer lips. When she’s gyrating and wanting it, you can finally give in and start eating her out. 
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Now, I could go into eating a woman out and what I do/techniques and tips. But that is a looooonnnngggg post that has many parts to it. This is the teasing part, but oral sex is a whole other post. 

So, Other than teasing you have a few options depending on your flavors:

Handcuffs- Can be used to free up your hands, and assert a more dominant role than simply holding them back temporarily. 

Blindfolds - This is great because you can take out one of the most important senses, but replace it with something just as amazing: Imagination. When she is blinded, you can play with hot and cold, anticipation, breaths, bites, nibbles, and soft and sensual words. This is also useful if a woman has trouble having orgasm, she can focus on what she is feeling and hopefully not look at things in the room and have her mind not focus on worrying about whats going on currently, or in her life. 

Feather- Tickling can be fun, and painful if taken to the extreme. Often used with restraints like ropes, scarves, and handcuffs to make the lady beg to stop or as a reward for “punishment”

Riding crop- This is a little more intense and for those who like to push the lines between pleasure and pain. A simple snap on the thigh, butt cheek, and back can assert dominance. A tap or a strike on the chest would be taking more control. The handle can also be used to tease and inserted into her (make sure you wash your sex toys!). 

Vibrators and Dildos: If she is into Double penetration you can put the dildo into which place she prefers and fuck her in the other one. Butt plugs can also do this if she’s never had anal before or in a long time. Vibrators can also help, they can be used alone, during oral, or while you’re having sex with her. She can pleasure her clit while you’re eating her out or using a dildo or fucking her.

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Final note: Every woman is different. Her preferences, likes, dislikes, sensitivity, and sexual desire are as unique as she is. Listen to her needs.

This post was written from a neutral perspective. Both men and women who want to pleasure a woman can use the info here. You can use this to spice up your own sex life or present some of these tips/options to your boyfriend/girlfriend to use on you. Hope it helps <3  

-Adrian/Pounce 

Gently, like the sun kisses your skin.

Roughly, like the swift cold breeze.

Softly, like the feel of an old sweater.

Passionately, like drinking water after a week of thirst.

I want to kiss you like it’s the last time we’ll see each other, with the excitement and tension as if it were our first.

Every inch, every part. I want to kiss you.  

Hope your day has been awesome :D 

I’ve got to power through a project and a paper due Friday, take the photos from my corrective exercise labs and begin to do posture assessment (yay! over 300 photos!) and pump out a few more pages into my thesis. Let’s hope this week goes by smoothly. 

Regardless, If you guys ever need me, I’m here for you. As always. 

Meow Meow

Sleep tight Pussycats :)